Eleven Hints for LIfe

"Eleven Hints for Life"


1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

- Unknown  (while surfing internet i found the above, and reposted in my blog bcs i like it, based on reality)

Gap Between Operational Staff and Decision Makers (Managing Committee)

In my shorter service in various organisation, the thing which i saw , really feel and understand that is "GAP BETWEEN OPERATIONAL STAFF AND MANAGING COMMITTEE". The GAP according to me as followings,

1. Decision Taken by Managing Committee, to its implementation,

2. The Behaviour of Managing Committee ( King of the Time )

3. Not Clear Vision , Mission Statements, and Objectives,

4. The Manager, ( Have no Interest in organizational work except "yes boss"

1)Actually the decision are taken, to implement and to bring some changes or improvement in the organisation, which is not possible, with out informing or guiding operation staff by manager, or any other source. ( As I saw the decision is taken just to make record for future, the agenda papers should be kept in folder for future , just to show next committee that we have meet each other)

2)Another issue which creates the gap is leader attitude and their way of leadership, here leaders means managing committee who leads the organization, they actually don't know reality what is going on in the organization, because for a very short time period managing committee attend the office, at that time every ones who spending only times in the organization just because of strong personal relationship with MC or any other source, meet in a way like every thing has been done by them, so they actual person of staff who really works hard, no one is here to ask, is still working,

3) Vision , Mission and Objectives are the statement which creates the big picture of organization , in the common public or community place, so most of our leader don't know how to create vision , mission statement and objective and task setting, so when these thing are not clear the gap b/w decision and implementation automatically increase,

4) The only and one solution to remove the gap is active and devoted manager, who play the role of bridge b/w operational staff and decision makers, will be able to motivate decision maker as per requirement, and also operational staff as per decision taken by mc,

When the flow of actual information regarding the organizational up and downs will flow freely by the bridge to upward and the decision or solutions to the problem will flow easily downward , the organization will automatically change and improve..

“Good management is the art of making problems so interesting and their solutions so constructive that everyone wants to get to work and deal with them.”

Paul Hawken quotes

'Draw Muhammad Day' by Facebook Internet User The Main Reason

As you all aware of it that facebook and youtube has been bloked in Pakistan some day before, because we muslims are very emotional and never neglect such kind of matter against our religion, its due to we have maintained and understand our social, ethical, religious values, The incident happed in facebook about muhammad is (in my point of view) a production of such a group of people the have damaged their social, ethical and religious values, and now they are in this conspiracy that muslims in all part of the world have maintained their respect in reality, so they feel jealous, in reality they group of people against muslims dont understant yet that who are father and who is brother, the bitches and bustared dont know that where they came from. instead of social development the thinks always to destroyed the peace of the world, they always try to make such kind of things, that the muslims get emotional, My request to all muslims that please be relax and dont feel any more, dont be emotional any more because they enemies also want to make you emotional and want to disturb you, the actual reason is thay have understand that muslims are going strong in every part of the world.

So the main aim of writing these statement here is , to tell you that who are making such kind of drawing the belong to such kind of groups of people, that the have totally losses their value in every aspact of life, in this era they don't know that who is their father and who is mother, in a very young age they leaves their home and parent choose a way to live, like an animal in the jungle, so they people are aware of it, that they have damaged, their social, ethical and religious value, and their source of income is making naked movies of each others,

So the main reason of this issue is, they people, the group of people are totally jealous form muslims and about muslims unity, they are helpless in this regards that muslims are still fallows their religious in every aspact of life, and they have losed all these,.

The Next Supper Power ... CHINA.

As you know that amirica is a supper power nowadays,  amirica is governing all over the world, they are doing according to thier wishes and wants. with out asking any others. 

now it is clear and very clear that like russia, amirica is going to be defeated in afghanistan and iraq, because  like amirica once russia was supper power and when he attacked on afghanistan, could  not defeat the afghanies,  because they are very different kind of people. so as you know that at that time russia has been devided in to six parts. and amirica apeared as a supper power,

So dear like that now amirica has lost every things in fghanistan and iraq, every thing of amirica is going down day by day, their economy their banking possition and their entrigrity even their value among the nation is going down, so very near when amirica will be going back from afghanistan with blank pocket and empty hands, then he will see that there will be another supper power which is CHINA .   ..................  

So it is reality now no one can stop china to become supper power,

According to my point of veiw it is possible by another ways also.. like  Europen Union  if china make a union with the help of pakistan , iran and some other arab countries then no one can prevent china to be a supper power and to be a fully developed country 

Fraud with Public With the Support of Media

Here i am going to mention about such kind of a fraud which is now a days free executed with the help of media ,  since knowing  that, this is a sort of  fraud but dont know who allowe these people to do,  such a scame activities openly. here i mean the  TV show in which one man asking public any question and says that if any one reply it with the correct answere they will  give him Rs 50000 or Rs10000 as an award. but the reality is this, the  question,  who the gentle man asking, is  like,

Q.... Tell me the citi name of pakistan which start by f and end by d.    F.......................D  also mantioned that this citi is industrial  and the name include AAAA ?.

so i think that the  provided information any kind of information or just for make money. the question is this,  that this is very simple every one can easily understant that this name is faisalabad.  so when any innocent if reply to him, Rs25 per minut deducted by his mobile balance, and there are no one is to receiving his/her call. and even if they call will be attended and he reply correct name, there are no Cash price for him. 

So what is this, why any body who just making money are doing such kind of Scame activities with the innocent people.  

I just tell you one story. like that there are many  program are going on. i think this is just in pakistan.  specially ATV and ARY Supports such kind of program,  think this is not a good manner to make fool the people, just for make money, Media is the role model for every citizen they should provide information and should tell the people how to change the life stile, .

But what is this,,,,,,,, this is just in pakistan i think. i request to those people who are supporting or planning for such programs please please dont make people fool..... what are you doing..

Terrorist and Al Qaida -- Made in USA

The day by day Developement of Muslim Countries and  going to close to each others, always make tarrible  pain for the western world specially for the UNITED STATE OF AMIRICA, so as every muslim are aware of this, the stage darama of 9/11  performed  very well by the USA Agencies,  and it is,  reality that there was no other people involve, according to my point of veiw, all the darama was fully supported by USA Agencies, because they want to Show to world that muslim are terrorist  trying to merge islam with terror activities,  the main reason of this act as evry one nows very well to to push back muslims and to prevent muslim from economical development and to make weak there governiments,

it is the grace of God that muslim countries have a big gift from God, that they have oil, menirals in their land, so the second main reason is to capture the oil production of muslim countries, because the modern age totally depend upon the energy, and which is available only in muslim countries, if the muslim shows unity and use the power or oil against western world then, they will be destroye and they can not live further more, so to make the muslim world dependent they amirican agencies making different kind of stratigy and attecking muslim, in every part of the world either direct or indirect, like in ghaza by israil. 

So the Current situation of Pakistan is not shows any other reason, it is also totaly effected by the amirican agencies, in secret the support taliban in pakistan and when they meet pakistan governiment the demand fight against taliban. this is not just in pakistan the stratigy they operates different part of the world. 

According to my point of view the amirican thinks that if the muslim  make unity the will defeat the wold then no one can oppose them,  

so it is necessary to make unity among muslim countries and think over the situation, why for the western interest they losses their lives, and they kill their own people,